Saturday, March 26, 2011

Soaking and Napping


My friend Isabel introduced me to Aire de Barcelona for the first time a month or so ago, and it was love at first sight.  Aires de Barcelona is the kind of place that would never go over in New York City, partly because of real estate costs and partly because people in New York City just don’t like to get into big pools of water with people they don’t know.  Aires is an Arab-style bath house, on the edge of the Born near the intersection of Carrer Princessa and Paseo Picasso. You make an appointment for a 1 ½ hour slot, during which you can get a massage or a scrub as well.

Ann and I went for a soak yesterday.  After you change into your bathing suit in the immaculate locker room, you descend down an open staircase into an enormous room lighted by candles.  The ancient brick walls and vaulted ceilings make the place seem as if it’s been there for centuries, but it quickly becomes obvious that everything is modern and efficient.

After showering, we slipped into the perfectly warm/hot salt pool and sat with the water grazing our chins until the aches and stress began to melt away.  We moved into the eucalyptus-infused air of the steam room; unlike many damp and chilly gym steam rooms in which I’ve sat waiting and waiting for the steam to come on, the steam at Aire de Barcelona never shuts off.  You get a quick, satisfying sweat, and there is a sink in the corner with one, cold water tap, and a metal bowl that you can fill and dump over your head in order to get a quick jolt and stay longer.

On the other side of the steam room is a row of three smaller pools—a super hot one flanked by a super cold, and an icy super cold one.  The idea is to get hot in the hot pool and then submerge yourself in one of the cold ones.  I love the way this feels, once I’ve done the cold plunge.  The biggest challenge for me, given that you can’t talk above a whisper at the baths—is to take the plunge without yelping.  It’s really cold.  Beyond the three extreme pools is one very long bathwater temperature pool.  It’s large enough to allow several people to float.

One of the things I like best about Aire de Barcelona is that it’s very uncrowded.  The cap on the number of people is quite low, which means you absolutely have to reserve in advance in order to be able to go when you want to.  Ann and I soaked in the late morning, moving from steam to hot to cold to bubbles to salt and back again.  We showered and walked out into the noonday sun, our bodies suffused with that particular relaxation that comes only from an extended date with water.

Our plan was to wind our way through the Born, exploring the streets on our way to lunch.  We made some excellent discoveries, including the well-edited mix of vintage and new home goods at Ivo & Co.

We had lunch at Vila Viniteca, a fabulous shop that sells terrific nonperishables—pasta, beans, chocolate, jams—as well as more than 300 cheeses from all over Europe, some charcuterie, and other dairy products.  There are a few tables in one area of the store where you can eat a simple but fabulous lunch—we ordered tomato bread, olives, white asparagus in vinaigrette, and a plate of six cheeses  We drank a couple of glasses of lovely priorat—one that I’d bought before and liked.

Vila Viniteca operates a fantastic wine shop across the street from the food store, and I can never resist picking up a bottle or two when I’m in the neighborhood.  Ii bought two reasonably priced priorats, and the helpful salesperson I dealt with tempted me with two, more “modern” varieties to come back for.

After lunch we tried to get into Santa Maria del Mar, but the church was closed.  So we picked up a small box of macarons at Bubo (not nearly as good as Laduree), a couple of chocolate covered figs at , and a café con leche at El Magnifico. 

Although we had planned to take a walk up at the Carretera de les Aigues after our day in the Born, but by the time we got home it was nearly six.  The apartment was tantalizingly quiet—the kids both had play dates—so we sunk into the couches and I promptly fell asleep.  There is nothing better than an afternoon nap.

Dinner, on Ann’s last night, was at DGust Born, which features cuisine de Mercado—food from the market.  Upon entering the restaurant, the hostess greets you with a glass of rose cava.  Immediately on your left sits a large counter full of crushed ice and topped with all kinds of fresh seafood, much of it still moving.  The menu for the day is printed on a large chalkboard that hangs over the fish counter.  You study it as you sip your cava and, when you have decided what you want, you tell the woman working the fish counter.  She was busy with another party when we first arrived, so I asked the hostess some questions about what things meant.  She seemed uneasy. The woman fish counter woman heard us and quickly interrupted to say, “Ask me about the menu—she is the cava person, and I am the food person.”  So we waited, and she was extremely helpful.  Alec had a plate of his beloved navajas—razor clams, while Ann and I had perfectly fresh salads for lunch.  Alec was underwhelmed by his main course of fish stew, but Ann loved her sole and my hake was fantastic.

We shared a crema catalana and a Santa Teresa of coconut, with cinnamon ice cream—both wonderful and then walked down the Passeig del Born, transformed from earlier in the day, to our car.  It was nearly 1 am, and I’d have to get up at  6 to get Ann to the airport.

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The priorats on my horizon

Thursday, March 24, 2011

The Week, in Brief


Sometimes it seems the kids are out of school more than they are in.  Last Friday, and this Monday, the kids were home because of parent/teacher conferences.  We had ours on Friday, and I have to say that the best thing we heard about both C.C. and Milo is that they are super-curious and love to learn.  Both are doing really well in school and love it.  C.C. was actually at her conference, presenting her own work, and sat up so straight and proud.  I am finding it hard to put into words how much love and wonder I felt, watching my girl turn into her own unique person right there before my eyes.

So Monday was not a day off for anybody else, which meant that Alec needed to go to work.  Which meant that I had the kids.  Milo got invited to spend most of the day at Peter’s house, so C.C., Ann and I made it a girls’ day in the Barri Gotic.  I made sure to pack C.C.’s book, and to start off at PapaBubble, a century-old candy shop in the eastern part of the old city.  It’s a small, beautiful, light-filled old shop.  When we walked in, two workers were busy forming candy from ropes of molten, colored sugar.  They pulled and rolled and twisted, handing each of us a small warm piece that melted, sweet-sour, on our tongues.  In the background, enormous metal pots bubbled on an industrial stove.  C.C., enthralled, could not tear herself away from the counter.  I love these old shops where people make the same things, with the same recipes, that they have been making for decades.  The work, which could be conceived of as tedious, has been elevated to a craft.  We bought small sacks of brightly colored sweets and went on our way.

We wound our way west through the serpentine streets—I still need a map—until we got to the cathedral.  Then we made our way to the Carrer Petrixol, home to two ancient granjas that specialize in chocolate and churros.  The first had already run out of churros, so we continued to the second, which had just sold its last order.  It was about 12:40, and the granjas close at 1 pm.  They would never sell a day-old churro; we were too late—I should have known better.  I had promised C.C. a rest and a treat, so I ordered her a cup of the warm, pudding-like chocolate and a croissant.

I had been wanting to try Dos Palillos, the restaurant in the Camper Hotel that sells Asian inspired tapas.  We crossed the Rambla to the Raval and learned that Dos Palillos is closed on Mondays.  Next time, I guess.  By this time we were hungry and in need of a rest, so I led the way to my old standby, Tapas 24.  C.C. pulled out Roald Dahl’s Charlie and the Great Glass Elevator—I ordered her a mango smoothie and some croquettes—while Ann and I perused the menu.  I can never resist the Bikini Comerc 24 and the Korean chicken wings, and the Tomato Bread is de rigeur.  Ann wanted the lamb skewer, and we got some vegetables in vinaigrette in order to have something green on the table.  Once the food came, Ann’s stomach had decided it didn’t feel like eating much, so I took a deep breath and dove in.  I must say I did a pretty good job of finishing off most of the food.  C.C. and I had to get home to get Milo from Peter’s, so we dropped Ann at the Casa Battlo and got on the train.

We brought Peter back to our house to give his parents a bit of peace and quiet.  I brought them to the park to shoot baskets to blow off some steam and then set them up with the Balto video and bowls of popcorn.

After a long day of work on Tuesday, during which Ann took the double decker bus tour, we spent yesterday in Sitges.  It is only about a half hour’s drive from Barcelona, and lovely, and I cannot believe this was only my second day there.  We walked along the beach and then around the old city, popping into shops and continuing to catch up on the past seven months.  I am not much of a phone person, so while I really like feeling connected to my friends and family, I just don’t gravitate toward the phone.  I do much better in person.

We ate a long, lovely lunch in the sun at Fragata.  I had a wonderfully fresh tuna tartare and then sautéed mushrooms, while Ann had a tomato and mozzarella salad followed by a puff pastry with eggplant and goat cheese.  We shared a cheesecake swimming in fresh berry compote for dessert.

A couple of years ago, Ann sent me a postcard with a drawing of two women sitting at a café table drinking cava.  “Barcelona” is written on a wall in the background.  The women look happy.  I tacked that postcard to a bulletin board right next to my desk in my New York City office, as a reminder that one day I would be there—here—in Barcelona, enjoying myself.  Sitting their with our glasses of cava, in the sun, connecting only as old friends can, I really felt as if I had been transported into that postcard, living the dream.

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Monday, March 21, 2011

The Rites of Spring


When my friend Isabel called yesterday to invite us to meet her and a couple of friends at a park at 4 o’clock for a merienda (an afternoon snack), I took her at her word.  Isabel called at 2, and we were all still in our pajamas, so the timing was perfect.  Slowly, we got motivated and showered and dressed.  I took the “snack” part of the invitation seriously, and packed a cooler bag with cheeses, jamon, membrillo, baguette, cava, Pinky (non-alcoholic bubbly for kids) and tangerines.   In another bag I packed a blanket and a soccer ball, and Alec through in a portable iPod player.

We met Isabel and her daughter, Lily, at the Sarria FGC stop.  Pretty soon her friend Rachel appeared, and we set off for the park.  As we walked, we continued to pick up more and more women and children until we were a rather sizable group.  No one seemed to be carting nearly as much stuff as we were. 

When we arrived at the park, it became clear that this was to be no ordinary picnic.  First off, no one was taking out any food.  One of the women, Maria, instructed us all to sit in a circle.  She took a small fairy statue and some plastic butterflies out of her bag and placed them on the ground in front of her.  Maria began to talk about the day and the fact that we were on the brink of the equinox.  “Spring is a time of opening up, of change,” she said.  “After the dark days of winter comes the sun.  It is time to look inside ourselves, take our cues from nature, and find out what kind of change each of us needs.”  I gave a sidelong glance towards Ann.  While I love ritual and have no problem holding hands and singing with strangers, Ann has much less patience for the hippy-dippy.  “What have I gotten us into,” I wondered.  Then, “She’s a big girl.  She can go take a walk if it gets too weird.”  When Maria’s eyes met mine, it felt as if she was looking into my very center.

Maria instructed the children to go off and hunt for beautiful natural objects to give to the fairy—the kids scattered quickly and began to come back with pinecones, flowers, sticks and rocks.  I looked at Isabel—“Merienda, my ass,” I said in a stage whisper.  She laughed.  Then Maria had each of the adults pick one card from a deck of tarot cards.  She had each of us, in turn, hand her our card and told us what it meant for us.  I drew the Hierophant—the high priest, a card that represents spirituality, learning and teaching.  According to ezinearticles.com, “The Hierophant depicts someone who is able to see through the superficial and get straight to the heart of the matter.”  Maria told me I needed to pay attention to the voice that talks to me when I first wake up in the morning, because our minds do important work during the night, and the results of this work are most accessible to us before we are fully awake.  I think my morning voice usually says, “Hit the snooze button!” but I will try to pay better attention in the days and weeks to come.

I was beginning to wonder when the picnic part of the afternoon would begin when Maria took out a container of nutella sandwiches for the kids, and ladyfingers for the grownups.  Other snacks appeared from other people’s bags.  I wondered if it would be okay to open the cava, but decided against it.  We took out a pack of stroopwafels and added it to the food that had begun to circulate.

Then the kids went off in a circle and learned how to be fairies—C.C. reported back that she did not want to be a fairy; Milo missed the whole fairy part because he needed to make a trip to the bathroom, which can take a very long time for Milo.  My stomach had begun to growl, so I started unpacking the cheese and jamon, the bread and the cava.  Isabel looked over—“Wow!” she said.  “You said merienda, and I take my snacks very seriously,” I replied.

Next we all made a large circle on the ground with the nature items the kids had brought back.  We stood outside the circle, tarot cards in front of our feet, and held hands.  I had to lunge out of the circle at one point when a Jack Russell terrier tried to snarf the jamon. Maria walked around the circle and whispered something in each of our ears.  Something secret.

The party broke up pretty quickly after that.  Ann and I sat and kept snacking, while C.C. headed to the swings with Lily and Isabel, and Alec and Milo kicked the soccer ball around.  After everyone else had left and it had begun to grow chilly and dusky, Isabel, Lily, Ann, Alec, C.C., Milo and I packed up and began to walk back through the nearly empty streets of Sarria, four-year old Lily clutching the bottle of Pinky and taking a swig now and then.  Isabel and Lily turned off to go to the train, and we made a short detour to Bar Tomas for a few plates of patatas bravas—Bar Tomas has some of the best in town.

If my morning voice tells me anything juicy, I’ll let you know.


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Sunday, March 20, 2011

Mès Que Un Club


One of the things I love most about my friend Ann is that she is always up for anything.  Her flight came in yesterday at about 6:30 am.  We had gone to our friends’ Vibeke and Erik’s home for a fun and delicious dinner on Friday night, so I  had had only about  four hours of sleep myself when my alarm woke me at 6 to go and pick Ann up at the airport.  After a quick snooze on the couch, Ann was ready to go.  We all headed to the market for our weekly shop and then down to the Barceloneta.  It was another perfect Barcelona day—70 degrees and not a cloud in the sky.  We wandered through the old neighorhood to the beach and had a late lunch at Agua.  I had sent the kids to the chino across from the market for some sand toys, and they happily passed the afternoon digging and collecting rocks, landing at our table briefly to wolf down plates of pasta while we sipped our cold beers and began to get caught up.

Ann mentioned that a friend in New York had urged her to go to a Barça game during her visit, and it turned out that the only night they would be playing was last night.  Alec checked the Mundo Deportivo he had picked up earlier— Barça was playing Getafe CF, a team they were expected to beat handily.  So there could still be some tickets available.  It was nearly 6 pm and the game started at 8.  The kids quickly got on the bandwagon:  “Let’s go to the game!” they cheered. We made our way home and Alec got right on the internet to check for tickets.  If we all went, we would need three tickets—kids are allowed to sit on an adult’s lap.  Alec found two together and one not far away.  “Are we doing this?” he asked us.  Ann and I had begun to sink down into our unattractive but deliciously comfortable sofas.  Ten more minutes and we might have been beyond the point of revival.  “Go for it!” I said (weakly but with enthusiasm) from my supine position.  I didn’t get up until Alec informed us that the credit card had gone through. “Done,” he said.  “We’ve got to hustle.”  The kids got their jerseys on and Ann wore Alec’s.  (See what I mean about her being a gamer?  She has never been into soccer, but when she’s in, she’s in 100 percent).  We were out the door in ten minutes. 

Two trains and a long-ish walk later we were walking into the electric and focused atmosphere of Camp Nou, a little late but happy to be there.  I took Milo on my lap, and Alec sat with C.C. and Ann.  Our seats were fantastic.  Dani Alves had already scored: 1-0 Barça. 

When you watch Barça in person, a couple of aspects of the team’s play that you hear about become crystal clear.  One concerns the team’s 70% possession of the ball.  Sitting up in the stands, you really notice just how much of the game is played on the Barça end of the field.  Another is the balletic beauty of the team’s choreography.  On average, Barça completes about 700 passes per game to the other team’s 300.  Viewed from above, you really see how the ball moves from player to player, as though the team is executing a precisely planned dance.  And then there is Messi, who did not play a particularly good game last night but is a marvel to watch nonetheless.  When he has the ball, it appears as though it is attached to his foot by a very short cord.  He simply does not lose it.  At one point, he traveled from the middle of the field to near the goal through a crowd of defenders; he even fell down and got up without ever losing control.  It recalled for me how excited Marv Albert used to get describing John Starks’ movement through the lane “in traffic” during the New York Knicks’ strong ‘90s run.

The fans, too, warrant comment.  No one gets up during the game to go to the bathroom or to buy food.  I wonder what a Barça fan would think of Mets fans standing in line for a half hour or more to get a burger from Shake Shack while watching the game on the JumboTron.  There is no chit chat—everyone is completely focused on the game.  And the fans applaud maneuvers that others might not even notice—Messi’s ball control, Adriano heading the ball to keep into play so that it does not go out of bounds and result in a throw-in.  You don’t hear it when you watch the game on TV, but in person, the applause for Adriano last night was instantaneous, and very loud.

Més que un club—“more than a club” is Barça’s tag line, and it could not be more apt.  We walked out into the balmy night with the other 99, 995 fans feeling good about the home team and our adopted city, and our friend Ann. 

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